In marriage you begin to rub off on each other, subtly taking on traits and characteristics of the other.

Does this thought excite you or does it make you feel like you just digested a can of the before mentioned Play-Doh? And you need to have your own identity beyond your spouse. If you don’t want to become like the person you’re dating, should you be dating?

So, what makes for a great question, as opposed to a dull back-and-forth? More important than the specifics of the question is your intention in asking it.

If you don't truly care about the answer, then any question will fall flat. Avoiding yes or no questions creates organic conversation, and allows you and your date to really get to know each other.

Sure, you know your boo is a bit messy, went to a small private college, and decided to become a painter instead of a doctor (like their parents always hoped). Does this person you love so much have ambitions to make a six-figure salary or cure cancer? Don't take the decision lightly, or you might wind up in your parents' basement, unable to afford an apartment because your wife has a 478 FICO score.

Speed dating is the hot new alternative on the dating scene, compared to barhopping and online dating.

”Don’t just go rattle off question after question; let the question you ask naturally lead into a conversation.

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If there’s emotional attachment then there could be problems down the road in making a firm commitment or there could also be comparisons to the other person. After all, leaving a bad relationship and entering in to another, most is not looking for someone sick or with major problems to deal with.

In the present world of speed and frenzy, speed dating is the instant dating solution for today’s youngsters.

Unlike normal dating, you have got five to 10 minutes to meet and create chemistry.

When I was dating I remember constantly being smothered with that giant question like a bloated bear was sitting on my head, refusing to move. To magically stumble upon like finding the gold at the end of a rainbow that is being carried by a unicorn with leprechaun jockey.

But how are you supposed to know which one is the right one?