The number one thing single millennials are struggling with?Surprise surprise, says Jeney — it’s the inability to connect deeply with a potential romantic partner.We sat down with Jeney to sort through this massive problem, and to get some practical advice on how to find love in the modern age.Below, learn why authenticity is so critical to dating, and how a milkshake could help you find your next bae.When it comes to makeup keep things simple and let your natural beauty shine through.'- Rob, 39.

'Dating is about getting to know someone as well as having fun, and when I say getting to know someone, I mean the real them, not the try hard version.Desires to get married and start a family are great, but save them for way after the first few dates.'- Isaac, 29. 'Getting the conversation to flow is awesome, however, guys definitely don’t want to hear about how you’ve recently fallen out with one of our coworkers and how you can no longer bare to look at her, for me this kind of catty behavior is a real mood killer.'- Daniel, 27.'Collecting the check at the end of a date is always one of the most awkward parts and no one really seems to know what to do about it, do you pay half each or does the guy pick up the check? 'Well, order a salad if you really want one, but if all you have been thinking about for days is a juicy burger, indulge yourself, we won’t judge you.Alysha Jeney: With our generation being so used to instant gratification, and used to being so easily accessible to each other, there’s a false sense of connection.Most relationships nowadays are no longer just limited to the usual way dates are planned.