Even if you didn't have children or never wanted them with your last partner you can't help this natural drive toward mate seeking for procreation.After you have been married once, and particularly if you've already had children you have to be mindful of this inherent wiring that drives your mate choice this next time around.

My last date before I got married was at a time when people didn’t have computers or smart phones. Only doctors had mobile phones and they were as big as a shoe box! And which of the trillions of online dating sites should you use? The first time I saw the commercial for that, I thought it was an skit! When I first got divorced I felt like I couldn’t do anything. I didn’t know how to change my furnace filter, change the string on the weed whacker or fix my washing machine when it started leaking all over.Your First Relationship After Divorce - After things have started to settle down, you'll probably consider dating again at some point in time.And while it may not last, the first relationship you have with a new man can do a lot to heal your wounded soul.Choosing someone for the wrong reasons will land you in the wrong relationship.You definitely don't want to end up with someone who isn't a good fit, and you want to consciously seek the person who's right for you .