If you have a teen who is dating, be alert for signs of abuse, both physical and emotional.Outward signs can include having bruises, scratches or other injuries and sudden changes in mood or personality. You want to have a conversation which reinforces your teen that you are a real resource that they are safe going to.You may find stereotypical themes in your teen’s view of relationships or you may find your teen thinks mutual respect is key in any relationship. You may want to ask your teen if they have ever seen any abusive behavior between two people who are going out. “A boy sees his girlfriend talking to another guy, so he pulls her by the arm and yanks her away.” Would you call this violent? Would you be shocked if your daughter said it was “just what guys do” and “no big deal”?Because the teen years are a time of asserting independence, often teens won't discuss things with their parents. But when the smartphone is constantly buzzing with messages from a significant other, it could be a sign of dating violence.The best solution is prevention, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). They often have an explosive temper, are jealous, put their partner down, isolate their date from friends and families, make false accusations, have mood swings, seem possessive or bossy, and will pressure their date to do things against his or her will.Welcome to one of the most challenging phases of parenting—adolescence.

Let him or her know when you truly care for someone you don’t hurt them or try to control them.

Many adults fail to take teen dating abuse seriously.

It’s important to know that teen dating abuse can be as violent as adult domestic violence.

They have a greater risk of becoming involved in an abusive act and traumatized in their own relationships, according to the AAP.

Parents can play a key role in prevention by being a positive role model.