You should feel comfortable honestly communicating your needs to your partner without being afraid of what they might do in response.

“We thought it would be cool to use an approach like Uber,” Sidorenko says.Texting, instant messaging and chat rooms use a strange, new language that’s filled with abbreviations and acronyms designed to quickly communicate and easily disguise a myriad of sex and drug terminology. Some of the abbreviations and acronyms have been created so that kids can continue their conversation with friends while a parent is watching over their shoulder, confident the old folks are clueless.For example, if you saw your daughter sending the text message, “PAW GYPO & Ill GNOC later” would you know she just scheduled a time for a naked video camera session after you go to bed for the night?Texting too much before you meet can give a false sense of who someone is through pithy jokes, cute one-liners, and the clever use of emoticons.Just because someone can be funny in text or concoct the perfect reply to your questions does not mean that you two are a match of any kind.