This is not the first time in recent memory that a couple's selfie has left the internet scratching their heads and wondering what sort of evil was afoot.Last year, another Twitter user posted a selfie of him and his girlfriend.We live in a fast paced society and honing the vital skill of observation is not the natural inclination for most of us.We want answers fast (How many times have you heard someone say "Just Google it"?

This is the date where you can let go of the nagging questions of initial chemistry and start to get to know this stranger in front of you.

To help facilitate this goal of knowing God better (John 17:3) and growing more like his Son (2Peter -note), be alert for the "periodic pit stops" which we call - these junctures will give you an opportunity to practice what you are reading and this in turn will help you to "internalize" what you are reading and will increase your retention and your confidence to apply these techniques in your daily time with God in His Word.

As you become more comfortable with these techniques, you will increasingly experience the joy of self discovery of precious nuggets of Truth.

Without wanting to turn the evening into the Spanish Inquisition, there are some things it’s useful to find out at this stage which will help you decide whether or not to move forward.

The second date is an opportunity to begin the process of really getting to know this person.