Which leads me to conclude that I can’t conclusively answer the question.

And what about you, anonymous reader and/or introvert revolutionist?

If you're an introvert, should you be looking for another introvert, or do opposites attract?

In the below excerpt from Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After by Sophia Dembling (out today), experts and real people weigh in on the topic.

Your extrovert is probably skilled at meeting and connecting with people, which means you’ll benefit, too. Your extrovert will stir you from your cozy introvert cocoon at home and get you to experience life in a way you may never have experienced on your own. An extrovert can get things out on the table for discussion, you can bring analysis and nuance to the discussion,” writes Dembling. Extroverts excel at articulating their thoughts (sometimes, to the chagrin of introverts, every thought that crosses their mind, no matter how seemingly insignificant — a sort of running commentary on life).

The good news is, with extroverts, there aren’t guessing games.

This may seem like a small thing, but over time this can be really aggravating. They might invite people over without telling you and then get upset when you don’t feel like socializing. They could constantly try to ‘help’ you to be more extroverted rather than accept you the way you are. They can be your social connector, introducing you to new people and places you wouldn’t have found on your own. They might encourage you (in a non-irritating way) to get out of your comfort zone and try new things. In social settings, they can do the talking when you can’t think of anything to say (this can be a con as well). They are able to show you a different way of viewing and interacting with the world. They might have the ability to spark interesting and enriching conversations that help deepen your connection. It is very possible that they will fully accept and appreciate all of your fine introverted qualities.

As I started looking deeper into their answers and thinking about my own relationship, I realized something.

The thing that made my boyfriend and I so different was our personalities. I like pop music, he likes more a techno-dubstep kind of sound, I love rom-coms, he loves a good action movie(especially if it has Tom Cruise in it).

A couple of weeks ago, I was late-night browsing on the app Whisper (like most people who know they should be going to bed but just don't feel like it do).

Most of the time on Whisper, most secrets are usually dumb things like "I was interested, knowing my boyfriend and I are complete opposites who make it work, I wanted to know what other people said. A bunch of people responded with things talking about communication, complimenting each other, how being different makes sure relationships are never boring, and being dedicated.