When it comes to understanding men—and their interest level in you—do you need a translator?

We asked the top body-language experts about men's most confusing mixed signals and found that it's not what he says but , says it's not much different when humans do it.

When you were around 10 years old, chances are someone passed a folded sheet of notebook paper and it read in 10-year-old scribble: "Do you like me? Check yes, no or maybe." You smiled and checked the "yes" box. But as we've gotten older, the dating scene's gotten much trickier.

While some men approach even without any signals being sent to them, their overall success rate with courtships is low, because they are approaching even when they are not welcome.In fact, it takes between 90 seconds and four minutes for another person to realize that you are flirting with them.And using body language to flirt is the most common way we do it.Every person has his or her own set of body clues, and putting them together can be a lot like solving a jigsaw puzzle.Still, it's always a good idea to arrive armed with basic knowledge.