If you’re in Sweden for Valentine’s Day and about to go on your first date with a Swede, here are some insights on what you could/should expect.Sweden is one of the world’s most equal countries when it comes to gender equality and the norms of what a date could look like.But the next day, he seemed kind of weird and distant. “It sounds like he's probably unsure of his feelings, or the feelings he experienced the night before may be something so new to him that it may be making him feel a little scared,” says Suzanne Oshima, a matchmaker and dating coach at Single in Stilettos.Whether he’s feeling shaky about his emotions or your awesomeness intimidates him, one thing is certain—you won’t know for sure until you talk to him (and over text! In person, gently ask him what’s up with his behavior: “Hey, Mark, you’ve been acting a little distant lately. ” He may open up and have an amazing heart-to-heart with you.

Finding the balance between overbearing and overly casual can be difficult.

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